The Verses on Friends
Aññadatthu haro mitto
One who makes friends only to cheat them,
Yo ca mitto vacī-paramo,
one who is good only in word,
Anupiyañ-ca yo āhu,
one who flatters & cajoles,
Apāyesu ca yo sakhā:
and a companion in ruinous fun:
Ete amitte cattāro Iti viññāya paṇḍito
These four the wise know as non-friends.
Ārakā parivajjeyya
Avoid them from afar,
Maggaṁ paṭibhayaṁ yathā.
like a dangerous road.
Upakāro ca yo mitto,
A friend who is helpful,
Sukha-dukkho ca yo sakhā,
one who shares in your sorrows & joys,
Atthakkhāyī ca yo mitto,
one who points you to worthwhile things,
Yo ca mittānukampako:
one sympathetic to friends:
Ete’pi mitte cattāro Iti viññāya paṇḍito.
These four the wise know as true friends.
Sakkaccaṁ payirupāseyya,
Attend to them earnestly,
Mātā puttaṁ va orasaṁ.
as a mother her child.